Posted July 27, 2011 at 9:15 AM

Sarah: Opening My Heart to a New Path

filed under: profile, Seattle, lesbian, trying, foster care, adoption

I'm very much looking forward to meeting Sarah at next week's Choice Mom event in Seattle. She's updated me on her journey a few times. And it's a great example of how life can unfold in unpredictable ways. Here is her story.

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Posted April 7, 2011 at 6:45 AM

Checklist for Single Parent Adoption

filed under: adoption, checklist, resources, international adoption, foster care, policy

Choice Mom Valerie offered up these questions to ask any prospective adoption agency before considering them for your single-parent adoption...

Posted January 21, 2011 at 8:40 AM

Choice Chat: The ups and downs of adoption

filed under: thinking, adoption, Texas, trying, emotions, ChoiceChat, profile, feature, foster care, international adoption, open adoption, stress, transracial, waiting

Writes Valerie: "I've been at a bus stop for a month now.

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Posted January 4, 2011 at 6:10 AM

Adoption Nation: a new blog worth subscribing to

filed under: adoption, international adoption, resources, foster care, expert insight

I learned that Adam Pertman has started writing an important blog that will address why all of us concerned about kids and family-building should pay attention to adoption issues. Here's what he says about the reason for his new blog:

Posted November 7, 2010 at 4:25 PM

Facts about foster care adoption

filed under: adoption, foster care, numbers, thinking, trying, being, numbers, resources

The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption is a great resource for information about foster care adoption. Here are some of the numbers they offered in National Adoption Month (November 2010) about the kids waiting in foster care for adoptive homes.

Foster care adoption

These clips from the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption feature some of the kids awaiting adoptive homes.

Adoption myths

I'm just a kid

Posted November 1, 2010 at 4:15 PM

Do you know enough about adoption?

filed under: adoption, foster care, trying, thinking, being, resources

There are a lot of things to misunderstand about adoption. Test your knowledge here.

Posted November 1, 2010 at 7:15 AM

Dannie: Me and my foster daughter

filed under: adoption, foster care, profile

It's National Adoption Month. To celebrate I'm sharing adoption stories from Choice Moms, starting with Dannie who adopted from the foster care system.

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Posted September 15, 2010 at 9:30 AM

Are you tired of the fertility rollercoaster?

filed under: NYC, fertility, trying, adoption, emotions, stress, healthy living, insemination, 2ww, expert insight, genetics, donor offspring, drugs, resources, miscarriage, telling and talking, thinking, transracial, waiting, money matters, eggs, foster care

Are you struggling (alone) with the weight of deciding whether to persevere with costly fertility treatments? There are mental health counselors who specialize in the fertility industry who are here to help you. This is great, detailed advice from one of them.

Posted September 1, 2010 at 8:05 AM

Finding an adoption attorney

filed under: adoption, foster care, legal

The relationship between a single woman and her adoption attorney is vital. This person can and should be your strongest ally for finding the placement that works -- and making sure the adoption is finalized in a timely way. This advice was posted to the Choice Mom discussion board by Holly, a wonderful resource for Choice Moms who use the foster care adoption route in particular.

Posted March 30, 2010 at 6:50 PM

Coming to grips with birth and foster families

filed under: adoption, foster care, international adoption, birth family, open adoption

This is an excellent response by my colleague Dawn Davenport to someone who was concerned about the level of affection her adopted child's foster family was feeling toward him.