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Posted September 13, 2010 at 11:40 AM

What Choice Moms are listening to

filed under: podcast, feature, adoption, anonymous donor, becoming, being, commentary, daddy question, dating, emotions, event insights, expert insight, fertility, genetics, growing up without a father, healthy living, home insemination, known donor, legal, miscarriage, money matters, newborn, numbers, parenting, profile, resources, sperm, , stress relief, support network, thinking, trying, waiting, doula, ChoiceChat

Lately I have been hearing from women who would love for me to return to creating new podcasts. I took 2011 off from the work, but hope to return this year with new shows -- and perhaps a webinar series! I currently have 46 shows available, with more than 39,000 downloads. Here's what's available.

Posted January 25, 2011 at 6:45 PM

Genetics: How to keep our kids safe

filed under: trying, insemination, sperm, sperm bank, policy, genetics, anonymous donor, donor conception, ChoiceKids, donor offspring, sperm donor

A woman on the Choice Mom discussion board asked what she could do to better guarantee her child's genetic health from an anonymous donor.

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Posted October 14, 2010 at 10:25 PM

UPDATED: Latest BioNews headlines

filed under: fertility, news, genetics, IVF, Canada, embryo, anonymous donor, UnitedKingdom, lesbian, donor offspring, resources, trying, research

As I've mentioned, one news source that I follow faithfully is BioNews, which publishes information about fertility and genetics out of the United Kingdom. Here are some of their latest reports of interest to the Choice Mom community.

Posted September 18, 2010 at 10:00 AM

Meeting half-siblings

filed under: being, ChoiceKids, telling and talking, donor offspring, genetics, resources, anonymous donor, open-identity donor

A woman with two young children wrote to say that a half-sibling of her kids was traveling to the U.S. from another country and wanted to meet, since the children shared the same sperm donor. The mother didn't feel prepared to talk to her kids about how they were connected, yet didn't want to miss the opportunity to meet.

Posted September 15, 2010 at 10:25 AM

Voices of Donor Conception

filed under: ChoiceKids, genetics, anonymous donor, donor conception, thinking, trying, book, donor offspring, expert insight, insemination, open-identity donor, parenting, policy, resources, sperm, sperm bank, telling and talking

ONLY TEN COPIES LEFT IN PRINT! Years ago I collaborated with Wendy and Ryan Kramer, the mother-and-son co-founders of Donor Sibling Registry, on some new tools for families created by donor conception. This was one of them.

Posted September 15, 2010 at 9:30 AM

Are you tired of the fertility rollercoaster?

filed under: NYC, fertility, trying, adoption, emotions, stress, healthy living, insemination, 2ww, expert insight, genetics, donor offspring, drugs, resources, miscarriage, telling and talking, thinking, transracial, waiting, money matters, eggs, foster care

Are you struggling (alone) with the weight of deciding whether to persevere with costly fertility treatments? There are mental health counselors who specialize in the fertility industry who are here to help you. This is great, detailed advice from one of them.

Posted August 24, 2010 at 4:45 PM

Q: How do sperm banks recruit donors?

filed under: anonymous donor, trying, insemination, sperm, sperm bank, policy, genetics

This is one in a series of policy comparisons ChoiceMoms.org is developing about the donor sperm industry. It's important for Choice Moms to be comfortable not only with a particular donor, but with the sperm bank that recruits and tests him. No one regulates the industry and women should understand the differences between banks before they "get in bed" with any donor.

Posted August 16, 2010 at 12:10 PM

What Matters to Our Kids?

filed under: thinking, being, commentary, profile, daddy question, donor offspring, genetics, growing up without a father, hot topic, inspiration, parenting

A few years ago a producer for noted conservative commentator Bill O'Reilly called to test me for a potential debate with his boss about why Choice Moms dislike men. Maybe it's because I was pretty easy-going in my responses, but I was never booked for the show. In his recent remarks about Choice Motherhood, however, I see he still has a bug up his

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Posted June 25, 2010 at 7:55 AM

Insight: Testing your sperm bank's genes

filed under: donor offspring, fertility, genetics, insemination, miscarriage, expert insight, sperm, trying, anonymous donor

Egg and sperm donor banks must adhere to certain safety standards, related to infectious disease testing. However, the donors themselves are not required to have genetic testing. That's why it's important for you to know the standards of the bank you want to work with -- and know what questions to ask.

Posted June 17, 2010 at 3:10 PM

Do you know your genetic history?

filed under: donor offspring, fertility, genetics, insemination, miscarriage, expert insight, sperm, trying, anonymous donor

One advantage of sperm donor conception is that you are looking at your eggs and a donor's sperm much more scientifically than if you were conceiving with a man you fell in love with. That means you have tools at your disposal to prevent potential medical problems for your child. Your sperm bank might have evaluated your donor’s family history, but have you had yours evaluated as well?

Posted June 11, 2010 at 10:15 AM

New genetics research coming with Donor Sibling Registry

filed under: being, donor offspring, news, ChoiceKids, anonymous donor, research, genetics

I've long been fascinated with genetics. Partly because since my one sibling is adopted, I've always been mindful and curious about the nature vs. nurture questions. Now Wendy Kramer at Donor Sibling Registry is announcing an exciting new research project that will help explore some of these issues.