Welcome home insemination community!

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The Home Insemination content on ChoiceMoms.org has consistently been the top-ranking area. If you are under the age of 35 and don't anticipate having fertility issues, other than lack of partner, there is plenty of material here (and more coming) to help you understand the at-home insemination process. Click here to view great insight about using a known donor.

If you haven't read it already, here's the 12-step guide to conceive as a single woman.

And don't miss the special 100-page "Choice Mom Guide to Fertility," which was created specifically for (and by) our community and a panel of 15 fertility specialists.

Posted September 13, 2010 at 11:40 AM

What Choice Moms are listening to

filed under: podcast, feature, adoption, anonymous donor, becoming, being, commentary, daddy question, dating, emotions, event insights, expert insight, fertility, genetics, growing up without a father, healthy living, home insemination, known donor, legal, miscarriage, money matters, newborn, numbers, parenting, profile, resources, sperm, , stress relief, support network, thinking, trying, waiting, doula, ChoiceChat

Lately I have been hearing from women who would love for me to return to creating new podcasts. I took 2011 off from the work, but hope to return this year with new shows -- and perhaps a webinar series! I currently have 46 shows available, with more than 39,000 downloads. Here's what's available.

Posted April 28, 2011 at 7:25 AM

Meet Cathi: North Carolina coordinator

filed under: NorthCarolina, thinking, trying, waiting, becoming, being, fertility, profile, stress relief, humor, support network, newborn, pregnancy, emotions, home insemination, regional guides, podcast

Any of you who have been following Choice Mom resources over the years is likely acquainted with Cathi. She found the humor in the stress of trying to self-inseminate, in learning about her own fertility, in being pregnant, in being the mom of a newborn, and now in being simply, joyfully, Mom. Here is her story in a nutshell.

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Posted December 28, 2010 at 12:20 PM

Choice Tips of 2010

filed under: resources, tips, thinking, trying, waiting, becoming, being, adoption, fertility, support network, QandA, regional guides, commentary, donor conception, emotions, event insights, expert insight, feature, home insemination, known donor, legal, money matters, newborn, parenting, organization, podcast, stress, telling and talking

Here it is! For a limited time, the special new baby for our Choice Mom community. Our Choice of ChoiceMoms.org tips from 2010, featuring everything from Organization to Building a Support Network, Q&A to Commentary.

Posted October 15, 2010 at 6:55 AM

Spotlight: Sepal Reproductive Devices

filed under: home insemination, trying, known donor, , insemination, donor conception, resources, lesbian

At the ASRM convention in 2009 for reproductive medicine specialists, I finally found a company I wanted to work with for our many women pursuing at-home insemination. Since then, Sepal Reproductive Devices has become a primary sponsor of our Choice Chat podcasts.

Posted September 15, 2010 at 8:30 AM

Choice Mom Guide to Fertility

filed under: fertility, book, insemination, trying, thinking, checklist, 2ww, doctor, terms, expert insight, home insemination, IVF, ovulation, sperm, stress, profile, resources

There is nothing that prompts more questions on Choice Mom discussion boards than when a single woman is purposely trying to conceive. We quickly learn how little we know about something we've been taught can be so easy. The Choice Mom Guide to Fertility gathers the most common questions and answers them, with the help of 15 fertility specialists we interviewed specifically for this book.

Posted August 26, 2010 at 4:45 PM

Testing your known donor

filed under: known donor, home insemination, trying, tips

Thanks to Choice Moms sponsor Sepal Reproductive Devices, which offers products and insight for women using home insemination, for these guidelines on working with a known donor.

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Posted August 23, 2010 at 7:00 AM

My Known Donor Warning

filed under: known donor, home insemination, trying, sperm, profile

This woman shared her story on the Choice Moms discussion board, and I thought it was a great reminder to women using a known donor: Make sure you talk about sperm testing before spending too much time trying to conceive.

Posted July 9, 2010 at 8:00 AM

7 tips to enhance fertility via insemination

filed under: fertility, insemination, SanFrancisco, expert insight, tips, home insemination

Whether you are inseminating at home, or with a doctor's care, here are 7 tips to help enhance your fertility, thanks to Dr. Lee Kao of Choice Mom sponsor Laurel Fertility Care:

Posted June 27, 2010 at 6:40 AM

Building your at-home insemination kit

filed under: home insemination, trying, fertility, products

When you don't have a partner to help you conceive, creating a baby at home can seem like a mystery. How do you do it? What do you need? Choice Moms sponsor Sepal Reproductive Devices will be offering regular tips on this website, starting with this one.

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Posted May 13, 2010 at 10:55 AM

Sex with a stranger

filed under: hot topic, thinking, trying, becoming, being, ChoiceKids, commentary, donor offspring, emotions, home insemination, known donor, sperm

Someone recently posted on one of the Choice Mom blogs that a friend of hers was intending to have sex with a stranger in order to get pregnant, and not tell the man. Not surprisingly, this made the friend uncomfortable.

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Posted February 11, 2010 at 3:20 PM

Audio: Home Insemination

filed under: podcast, ChoiceChat, trying, home insemination

Listen to this growing library of clips and podcast excerpts about home insemination.

Home Insemination

a compilation of clips from the Choice Chat podcast

fresh vs. frozen sperm

Kristin Kali of Maia Midwifery on the life span of fresh and frozen sperm, excerpt from podcast (2008)

cervical cap vs. syringe

what method does IntegraMed's Dr. Jim Toner (Atlanta) recommend for insemination?

do you need to worry about hostile mucous?

Posted February 2, 2010 at 9:30 PM

Known donor safety

filed under: known donor, commentary, sperm, news, UnitedKingdom, sperm bank, home insemination

A growing number of independent websites and discussion groups have formed that connect donors directly with people who are in search of sperm. There obviously are no safeguards with this kind of contact. Many of the donors indicate they are giving altruistically, motivated only to help people create families.

Posted February 2, 2010 at 6:40 AM

Negotiating with a known donor

filed under: podcast, known donor, home insemination, legal, expert insight

There are many things to talk about with a known donor candidate. This Choice Chat podcast covers many of the issues with two unique experts.

Using a known donor

Known Donor 1

1) a known donor talks about the negotiation process; 2) reproductive law expert Ami Jaeger talks about the legalities involved (18 minutes, 2008)

Posted February 1, 2010 at 4:10 PM

DIY Insemination

filed under: home insemination, sperm, known donor, profile, tips

submitted by Kenzie
Even before I made the choice to conceive with a known donor, I knew that however I conceived I would be doing it myself with as little medical intervention as possible. After all, it's my body, my fertility, and in the end I'm creating my family. It feels very important to me to take responsibility for and to understand the process, as well as the result.

Posted February 1, 2010 at 2:50 PM

Sperm banks that ship to homes

filed under: home insemination, sperm bank, sperm

We asked a few sperm banks about their policies about sending sperm to the home:

Posted February 1, 2010 at 2:35 PM

Fresh vs. frozen sperm

filed under: home insemination, sperm, expert insight, tips, insemination

A common concern of Choice Moms-in-the-making is how the success rate differs when using fresh and frozen sperm. Do you diminish your chances of success when using frozen sperm? I asked two experts, with two perspectives, about their thoughts.

Posted February 1, 2010 at 2:30 PM

Washed or unwashed sperm

filed under: sperm, home insemination, anonymous donor, terms

Whether a woman is using ICI, IUI, or doing home insemination with frozen sperm, she must order either unwashed or washed sperm from a bank.

Posted January 25, 2010 at 10:35 PM

Three types of insemination

filed under: home insemination, terms, insemination

There are three types of insemination techniques: 1) vaginal (or peri-cervical), which uses a syringe (the kind used to give infants liquid medicine) to place sperm into a woman's vagina, near the cervix, 2) intracervical insemination (ICI), involves the use of a catheter or cannula, to place the sperm directly into the cervix, 3) intrauterine insemination (IUI) involves the use of a catheter, or cannula, to place the sperm directly into the uterus.