Posted August 30, 2010 at 2:45 PM

Building strong childhood memories

filed under: being, commentary, parenting, Choice_Kids, inspiration, growing_up_without_a_father

I get more melancholy about the end of summer than my kids do. They love school, and started the new school year today. About my own sadness about this time of year, I know that it's largely because my kids are the ones who teach me to play, not to work all the time.

Posted August 26, 2010 at 7:50 AM

Dixie Chicks song

filed under: waiting, 2ww, newborn, inspiration, Choice Kids, parenting

Thanks to Jessica for suggesting this Dixie Chicks song for anyone in the Choice Mom community looking for inspirational music about becoming a single mother.

Posted August 20, 2010 at 6:40 PM

Stacey: Just You and Me, Kid

filed under: thinking, becoming, waiting, profile, book, Choice Chat, inspiration

"Even the most independent or progressive among us didn't play house without at least going through the motions of assigning someone the dad role...Our childhood fairy tale fantasies involved Prince Charming and happily ever after, not donor number 5931...and a brief encounter with a syringe."

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Posted August 16, 2010 at 12:10 PM

What Matters to Our Kids?

filed under: thinking, being, commentary, profile, daddy question, donor offspring, genetics, growing up without a father, hot topic, inspiration, parenting

A few years ago a producer for noted conservative commentator Bill O'Reilly called to test me for a potential debate with his boss about why Choice Moms dislike men. Maybe it's because I was pretty easy-going in my responses, but I was never booked for the show. In his recent remarks about Choice Motherhood, however, I see he still has a bug up his

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Posted June 27, 2010 at 7:20 AM

Daily Meditation

filed under: thinking, waiting, being, inspiration, emotions, stress, commentary, reviews, book

I recently discovered the book "DailyOM: Inspirational Thoughts for a Happy, Healthy and Fulfilling Day," while working at the Unitarian Universalist Association's bookstore during its recent annual convention.

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Posted June 21, 2010 at 3:55 PM

Father's Day thoughts

filed under: growing up without a father, commentary, being, thinking, inspiration, Choice Kids

I'm often asked how Choice Moms handle Father's Day. And we often wonder -- especially before we have kids, or when our children are quite young -- whether they are missing out on something important by growing up without a father.

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Posted April 29, 2010 at 12:30 PM

Living in the moment

filed under: stress, Austin, emotions, inspiration, tips, expert insight

I admit that the idea of 'living in the moment' can sometimes seem laughable to a Choice Mom, who is so busy juggling day-to-day responsibilities that no moment seems to last long enough to live on.

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Posted April 5, 2010 at 12:45 PM

Surviving Newborn Boot Camp as a Single Parent

filed under: podcast, newborn, becoming, emotions, inspiration, organization, support network, stress, breastfeeding

An Australian woman who is going to college in the U.S. while raising a newborn, and a firefighter with two young children, share their tips about how to survive baby boot camp as a single parent.

Posted March 5, 2010 at 7:20 PM

The Trance of Scarcity

filed under: inspiration, book, thinking, commentary, emotions, support network

Are you thinking that life is unfair? That you might not be worthy of having a child? That Choice Motherhood is a path of defeat? That no one has chosen you? That you are an oddball for even considering this voyage? That your child would be branded as an outsider? Before you embark on this journey consider these words from Victoria Castle, author of The Trance of Scarcity.

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