Posted September 13, 2010 at 11:40 AM

What Choice Moms are listening to

filed under: podcast, feature, adoption, anonymous donor, becoming, being, commentary, daddy question, dating, emotions, event insights, expert insight, fertility, genetics, growing up without a father, healthy living, home insemination, known donor, legal, miscarriage, money matters, newborn, numbers, parenting, profile, resources, sperm, , stress relief, support network, thinking, trying, waiting, doula, ChoiceChat

Lately I have been hearing from women who would love for me to return to creating new podcasts. I took 2011 off from the work, but hope to return this year with new shows -- and perhaps a webinar series! I currently have 46 shows available, with more than 39,000 downloads. Here's what's available.

Posted October 21, 2011 at 12:35 PM

Q: More IUIs? IVF? embryo donation? adoption?

filed under: trying, fertility, thinking, miscarriage, support network, donor conception, emotions, adoption, embryo, QandA

For many of us, simply having sex with someone we love to produce a child is a great idea. But life being what it is today, women like us, busy with goals and options, have many more choices than we used to. We can delay child-bearing a few more years, generally into our 30s, sometimes into our early 40s. But when things don't go as easily as we would like, and we see the many options to motherhood available to us, how do we choose?

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Posted October 21, 2011 at 9:00 AM

News from Reproductive Medicine conference

filed under: fertility, event insights, trying, commentary, embryo, donor egg, donor offspring, sperm donor, lesbian, adoption, miscarriage

I just returned from Orlando, where hundreds of specialists in reproductive medicine gathered for their annual convention -- largely focused on helping women get pregnant with up-to-date research and technology. Here is some of what I learned, and people I talked to.

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Posted April 15, 2011 at 8:35 AM

Do you understand ovulation?

filed under: fertility, LosAngeles, 2ww, trying, thinking, waiting, doctor, embryo, insemination, sperm, miscarriage, expert insight, ovulation, pregnancy

We all think we know how our cycle works. Until it's time to time ourselves for the purpose of insemination.

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Posted November 24, 2010 at 6:40 AM

Stacy: how I coped with pregnancy loss

filed under: trying, support network, profile, miscarriage

A Choice Mom had to terminate at 17 weeks because of chromosomal issues with a baby who was conceived after seven IUI attempts. She was heartbroken, and turned to the discussion board for support. Stacy is one who responded with her story of how she coped after loss.

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Posted September 15, 2010 at 9:30 AM

Are you tired of the fertility rollercoaster?

filed under: NYC, fertility, trying, adoption, emotions, stress, healthy living, insemination, 2ww, expert insight, genetics, donor offspring, drugs, resources, miscarriage, telling and talking, thinking, transracial, waiting, money matters, eggs, foster care

Are you struggling (alone) with the weight of deciding whether to persevere with costly fertility treatments? There are mental health counselors who specialize in the fertility industry who are here to help you. This is great, detailed advice from one of them.

Posted September 12, 2010 at 6:45 AM

The worries of a newly pregnant Choice Mom

filed under: NYC, emotions, waiting, stress, expert insight, miscarriage, doula

A woman on the Choice Mom discussion board admitted that now that she had finally been able to conceive she was filled with worry about having a healthy pregnancy. This is not an uncommon reaction. I asked Joann Galst, a long-time adviser to the Choice Mom community and a New York City-based therapist, to respond.

Posted September 10, 2010 at 3:05 PM

Choice Mom Guide to Building a Support Network

filed under: support network, stress, miscarriage, newborn, podcast, thinking, trying, fertility, waiting, becoming, being

By now I hope you've had a chance to explore the "support_network" keyword on ChoiceMoms.org, because I think this is the most important and valuable information any parent needs. But if you haven't seen everything we've offered here from fellow moms and experts, here's a shortlist of some of my favorite items in it.

Posted September 8, 2010 at 2:50 PM

Spotlight: Laurel Fertility Care

filed under: SanFrancisco, fertility, stress, miscarriage, ovulation,

I couldn't offer what I do on this website and at the Choice Mom networking events without the support of sponsors who specifically value the Choice Mom community. I've had the pleasure over the years of working with doctors from many Bay Area clinics. One of the warmest and most accessible of those has been Dr. Collin Smikle, of Laurel Fertility Care.

Posted August 12, 2010 at 5:50 AM

Why miscarriages happen -- and the age factor

filed under: SanFrancisco, trying, fertility, miscarriage

Miscarriages are more common than we realize. Often women deal with their grief alone -- and wonder whether there was something they could have done to change the outcome. We asked San Francisco-based Choice Mom sponsor Laurel Fertility Care to explain why miscarriages happen, and how age factors in.

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Posted June 25, 2010 at 7:55 AM

Insight: Testing your sperm bank's genes

filed under: donor offspring, fertility, genetics, insemination, miscarriage, expert insight, sperm, trying, anonymous donor

Egg and sperm donor banks must adhere to certain safety standards, related to infectious disease testing. However, the donors themselves are not required to have genetic testing. That's why it's important for you to know the standards of the bank you want to work with -- and know what questions to ask.

Posted June 17, 2010 at 3:10 PM

Do you know your genetic history?

filed under: donor offspring, fertility, genetics, insemination, miscarriage, expert insight, sperm, trying, anonymous donor

One advantage of sperm donor conception is that you are looking at your eggs and a donor's sperm much more scientifically than if you were conceiving with a man you fell in love with. That means you have tools at your disposal to prevent potential medical problems for your child. Your sperm bank might have evaluated your donor’s family history, but have you had yours evaluated as well?

Posted February 11, 2010 at 3:25 PM

Dealing with miscarriage alone

filed under: fertility, emotions, miscarriage, trying

Nothing seems lonelier than coping with a pregnancy loss on your own. This audio clip will help explain why it happens.

Miscarriage

Could I have prevented this?

Dr. Jim Toner (Atlanta) talks about whether miscarriage can be prevented