Posted September 13, 2010 at 11:40 AM

What Choice Moms are listening to

filed under: podcast, feature, adoption, anonymous donor, becoming, being, commentary, daddy question, dating, emotions, event insights, expert insight, fertility, genetics, growing up without a father, healthy living, home insemination, known donor, legal, miscarriage, money matters, newborn, numbers, parenting, profile, resources, sperm, , stress relief, support network, thinking, trying, waiting, doula, ChoiceChat

Lately I have been hearing from women who would love for me to return to creating new podcasts. I took 2011 off from the work, but hope to return this year with new shows -- and perhaps a webinar series! I currently have 46 shows available, with more than 39,000 downloads. Here's what's available.

Posted April 28, 2011 at 7:25 AM

Meet Cathi: North Carolina coordinator

filed under: NorthCarolina, thinking, trying, waiting, becoming, being, fertility, profile, stress relief, humor, support network, newborn, pregnancy, emotions, home insemination, regional guides, podcast

Any of you who have been following Choice Mom resources over the years is likely acquainted with Cathi. She found the humor in the stress of trying to self-inseminate, in learning about her own fertility, in being pregnant, in being the mom of a newborn, and now in being simply, joyfully, Mom. Here is her story in a nutshell.

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Posted February 25, 2011 at 2:45 PM

What to pack for the hospital

filed under: waiting, pregnancy, QandA, becoming, newborn, tips, organization

A woman on the discussion board wondered what to pack for delivery at the hospital. Here's what Lily recommended:

Posted February 14, 2011 at 12:25 PM

Happy Valentine's Day gifts to new moms

filed under: , becoming, waiting, ChoiceKids, newborn, parenting, telling and talking, tips

I'm very happy to report that 30 Welcome Kits went out to new Choice Moms last week. This is a special new perk to the Choice Mom community, which includes...

Posted January 10, 2011 at 8:25 AM

Q&A: Helping an attachment baby nap without breast

filed under: becoming, being, newborn, parenting, QandA

A newborn mom thinking ahead to her return to the work world worried about how to help her daughter transition into naps that don't involve breastfeeding her to sleep.

Posted January 5, 2011 at 6:00 AM

Ten reasons to use an au pair

filed under: being, childcare, ChoiceKids, parenting, work, waiting, newborn, becoming, Minnesota, resources, deals

This list was offered by Carrie Crompton at Cultural Care Au Pair, who is offering a great $500 discount to the Choice Mom community.

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Posted December 28, 2010 at 12:20 PM

Choice Tips of 2010

filed under: resources, tips, thinking, trying, waiting, becoming, being, adoption, fertility, support network, QandA, regional guides, commentary, donor conception, emotions, event insights, expert insight, feature, home insemination, known donor, legal, money matters, newborn, parenting, organization, podcast, stress, telling and talking

Here it is! For a limited time, the special new baby for our Choice Mom community. Our Choice of ChoiceMoms.org tips from 2010, featuring everything from Organization to Building a Support Network, Q&A to Commentary.

Posted November 22, 2010 at 11:05 AM

Felicia: How I found my tribe

filed under: thinking, becoming, being, profile, newborn, support network, parenting, waiting

It is always surprising to me how often I seem to be in a state of revising my plans. I meant to grow up, meet my prince, get married and have kids. I really did. It just didn't work out that way.

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Posted November 3, 2010 at 3:35 PM

Parenting multiples

filed under: becoming, waiting, multiples, newborn, Minnesota

I've been hearing from more Choice Moms of twins lately, and it reminds me that we need to offer more on this website for single moms with multiples.

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Posted October 18, 2010 at 10:50 AM

Are you in one of our Top 20 markets?

filed under: resources, Atlanta, Texas, waiting, becoming, being, Canada, Chicago, doula, healthy living, house, adoption, legal, Minnesota, newborn, organization, parenting, products, regional guides, SanFrancisco, Seattle, , stress relief, Toronto, WashingtonDC, UnitedKingdom

There are 20 major markets where Choice Moms live. There are Choice Moms everywhere, of course, but I'm focusing on 20 communities where this website gets the most traffic from single women. I'm building resource guides for the cities listed below, with your help.

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Posted October 6, 2010 at 9:20 AM

Avoiding pre-eclampsia during pregnancy

filed under: waiting, becoming, newborn, healthy living

Pre-eclampsia leads to high blood pressure and swelling during pregnancy. I had a friend who suffered from it, and it wasn't pretty. Pregnancy nutrition is an important part of avoiding it.

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Posted October 2, 2010 at 9:05 AM

How to cloth diaper your baby

filed under: becoming, waiting, healthy living, newborn, tips

Many Choice Moms make a firmer commitment to organic living after they become moms. If you want to start by using cloth diapers, here are tips from an expert.

Posted September 24, 2010 at 2:25 PM

Week 10: Being the Choice Mom to a newborn

filed under: becoming, waiting, newborn, support network, profile, stress, inspiration

This priceless -- and honest -- gem from Cathi about new motherhood comes from the archives of the Choice Moms blog, and I wanted to re-offer it to our new moms.

Posted September 23, 2010 at 2:10 PM

Tips for coping with newborn life

filed under: becoming, newborn, stress, tips, waiting

My favorite connection to see at Choice Mom networking events is when our experienced moms can reassure the pregnant and newborn moms that "everything is going to be all right." I started collecting tips on how to deal with the logistics of newborn days after three women in my local area had babies within a week.

Posted September 20, 2010 at 10:25 AM

What I've learned as a new Choice Mom

filed under: becoming, being, newborn, parenting, humor, tips

Some time ago on the old Choice Moms blog format, Denise offered these fun and wise thoughts on what she'd learned after 10 months of Choice Motherhood. They were too priceless to disappear, so I've resurrected them here. We invite you to add your own.

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Posted September 18, 2010 at 2:05 PM

Dealing with the exhaustion of newborn days

filed under: becoming, newborn, parenting, emotions, support network, stress, profile, tips

A new Choice Mom admitted her exhaustion with the first months of motherhood. Women in the community chimed in with support. Here are two of the responses.

Posted September 16, 2010 at 10:30 AM

Cathi: Dealing with the "what ifs"

filed under: being, profile, parenting, newborn, becoming, stress, humor

The first few weeks (and months, and maybe years?) of motherhood are a beautiful and emotional time. You bond with Baby, and learn about each other, and stare dreamily into each others' eyes. You are also wracked with hormones, and lack of sleep, and an almost overpowering, choking terror.

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Posted September 14, 2010 at 3:25 PM

Happy Baby checklist: Leading a healthy life

filed under: waiting, becoming, newborn, book, parenting, healthy living, stress relief

After I became a mother to Sophia back in 1999, I ended up unexpectedly creating a less stressful and healthier lifestyle. Partly this was because I didn't have time to work 60-hour work weeks -- and didn't want to. But also because I wanted to instill better habits in my child so she would eventually live a healthy lifestyle.

Posted September 10, 2010 at 3:05 PM

Choice Mom Guide to Building a Support Network

filed under: support network, stress, miscarriage, newborn, podcast, thinking, trying, fertility, waiting, becoming, being

By now I hope you've had a chance to explore the "support_network" keyword on ChoiceMoms.org, because I think this is the most important and valuable information any parent needs. But if you haven't seen everything we've offered here from fellow moms and experts, here's a shortlist of some of my favorite items in it.

Posted September 7, 2010 at 12:15 PM

Making Room for Baby: decluttering tips

filed under: NYC, waiting, becoming, newborn, checklist, organization

When I lived in my one bedroom floor-through apartment in New York City with my young daughter, I did start to feel overrun in that first year by the THINGS she needed. I was frugal, but still had the diaper pail, stroller, Baby Bjorn, exersaucer, 3-in-1 travel crib (used everyday), and a growing collection of plastic chewy items. So it was no surprise when the organizing experts at the New York City Choice Mom event drew a crowd.

Posted August 26, 2010 at 7:50 AM

Dixie Chicks song

filed under: waiting, 2ww, newborn, inspiration, ChoiceKids, parenting

Thanks to Jessica for suggesting this Dixie Chicks song for anyone in the Choice Mom community looking for inspirational music about becoming a single mother.

Posted August 21, 2010 at 8:50 AM

Book excerpt: Newborn Baby Boot Camp

filed under: becoming, newborn, parenting, emotions, book, stress, humor

One of the things I loved about the new Choice Mom memoir by Stacey MacGlashan, "Just you and me, kid," was the insight she offered to other Choice Moms about the reality of the newborn days. Her kind reminder to women like us that attempting to be superwoman is just plain dumb. And her warning to pre-moms that you need a certain kind of stamina -- that most of us do have -- in order to succeed.

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Posted May 25, 2010 at 9:25 AM

20 tips to prepare for new motherhood

filed under: SanFrancisco, organization, stress, tips, becoming, waiting, newborn, simplify, house

It is important for a sleep-deprived mother to know where things are. Because when you and baby are struggling to keep nights and days straight, the last thing you need is to find out at midnight that you are out of baby Tylenol or wipes. And keeping the diaper bag packed with everything you need for three hours of errands is easier when you haven't just spent half hour looking for your keys.

Posted April 28, 2010 at 7:00 AM

Can you afford to do this?

filed under: money matters, thinking, trying, newborn, insemination, becoming, resources

Uber organized Jessica, a Choice Mom in every way, will deliver her first child in a few months. While she was in the Thinking process -- preceding a long Trying phase -- she developed a worksheet that calculated how much she would need to spend trying to conceive, for prenatal care, for newborn items, and for post-delivery childcare expenses for a year. Here are the numbers she came up with.

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Posted April 5, 2010 at 12:45 PM

Surviving Newborn Boot Camp as a Single Parent

filed under: podcast, newborn, becoming, emotions, inspiration, organization, support network, stress, breastfeeding, work, fertility

An Australian woman who is going to college in the U.S. while raising a newborn, and a firefighter with two young children, share their tips about how to survive baby boot camp as a single parent.

Posted February 11, 2010 at 3:35 PM

Newborn baby boot camp: stress reduction

filed under: podcast, becoming, stress, newborn, expert insight, healthy living

When you're suffering from the stresses and strains of newborn baby boot camp, listen to these words of advice from noted pediatrician Dr. Robert Sears.

Baby boot camp

Here's what you need to know about newborn days as a single mom.

Dr. Sears: stress relief

Posted February 3, 2010 at 7:40 PM

What newborns require

filed under: becoming, newborn, products, waiting, tips

One typical question asked on the Choice Mom discussion board is, what do I need to have on hand for my newborn? The responses have been numerous over time, so there are two compilations on this website about product recommendations from the Choice Mom community. This page is actual brand suggestions of certain products and tips that were recommended by Choice Moms. Below are the responses many Choice Moms have made about what was essential, and what was not, for their newborn.

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Posted February 3, 2010 at 7:00 PM

Breastfeeding tips

filed under: breastfeeding, newborn, becoming, tips

Doria is a Choice Mom, midwife and lactation consultant. She offers this Top 10 list for breastfeeding success:

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Posted January 25, 2010 at 8:10 PM

Pump: rent or buy?

filed under: becoming, newborn, breastfeeding, products, tips, QandA

Here's what Choice Moms have to say about breast milk pumps: