Posted August 3, 2010 at 4:55 AM

Who visits ChoiceMoms.org, and why?

filed under: research, NYC, Atlanta, Austin, Europe, Minnesota, SanFrancisco, Seattle, DC, numbers, United Kingdom

Since I've been keeping track of website traffic for two years now, I thought it would be interesting to share information about where we tend to live, what information we tend to look for on the website, and what's been happening since I relaunched the website with its new format in February 2010.

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Posted July 24, 2010 at 3:20 AM

Notes from the U.K.

filed under: thinking, trying, waiting, being, research, donor offspring, emotions, support network, money matters, Choice Kids, daddy question, events, United Kingdom, telling and talking

Thanks to the generosity of Choice Mom Emily, I've been able to spend a wonderful 10-day holiday in London with my kids and parents. While here I met in Coram's Field with 14 women, including Moms, Thinkers and Tryers from Belfast, Dublin, Belgium and many others in the United Kingdom. I also met with a large group of Ph.D. students in Cambridge, who were interested in the Choice Mom story.

Posted July 20, 2010 at 3:05 AM

Donor conception "research"

filed under: anonymous donor, feature, donor offspring, Choice Kids, insemination, sperm bank, commentary, research

I've been asked by some to offer comment on the study about donor-conceived kids that was released in May 2010 by the Commission on Parenthood's Future, in conjunction with the Institute of American Values.

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Posted June 7, 2010 at 10:35 AM

Children raised by lesbians fare "better"

filed under: being, Choice Kids, lesbian, hot topic, news, parenting, research, telling and talking

Lesbian and gay couples, and single women, have long been presumed by many to offer "worse" family structure for kids compared to two-parent heterosexual marriages. One new study reported in Time magazine indicates something we've long suspected. That might be a huge presumption.

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Posted May 19, 2010 at 7:00 AM

Latest research on Choice Moms

filed under: research, Choice Kids, Choice Mom survey, growing up without a father

Susan Golombok is the Cambridge University-based researcher who did the first large-scale study of the Choice Mom community in 2008. Some of those findings are posted here. Now she's published a new report of other research into female-headed families.

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Posted May 8, 2010 at 7:55 AM

Trendsetting: the Choice Mom path

filed under: profile, news, research, Choice Mom survey

As the latest numbers indicate, older, educated, unmarried moms are well on the rise, per a new Pew Center report. I've long maintained that about 50,000 women choose this path each year.

Posted May 1, 2010 at 6:40 AM

Acupuncture and fertility: survey says

filed under: fertility, stress, trying, holistic, emotions, organic, research, expert insight

A member of the Choice Mom discussion board recently posted about a study that indicated acupuncture might have a negative impact on fertility. Since this runs counter to what the Choice Mom community has heard about the value of acupuncture on enhancing fertility rates, I went to some of the holistic healers who have talked with us in the past to get their perspective on the study.

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Posted April 29, 2010 at 8:10 AM

Data on Choice Moms

filed under: being, Choice Mom survey, thinking, trying, podcast, feature, hot topic, news, research

It's been a big week for keeping up with media requests. NOT, as I had expected, because of my recent debate with a father's rights advocate (thanks to ALL of you for adding your voice to the comments on PublicSquare.net that show our rationality), but simply accidental. Thought you might be interested in hearing what I've been repeating this week about who we are.

Posted April 19, 2010 at 10:20 AM

Yee-ha: The public debate is on

filed under: being, Choice Kids, commentary, daddy question, emotions, growing up without a father, hot topic, news, parenting, policy, research, support network, telling and talking

Well here it is...the public debate between a Glenn Sacks father's rights crony (Robert Franklin) and myself on PublicSquare.net. Read, laugh, seethe, comment. I actually love the opportunity to offer a rational perspective, even if my opponent has a decidedly different viewpoint. Such as Franklin's view that Choice Moms often trick men into having kids and then lie to keep them out of the child's life. Here's a synopsis, with links to the full debate.

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Posted February 6, 2010 at 8:25 PM

What anonymous-donor offspring think

filed under: podcast, anonymous donor, donor offspring, Choice Kids, research

Have you wondered what offspring conceived from donor sperm think about as they get older?

Posted February 2, 2010 at 7:25 PM

Survey Says: Choice Moms generally not interested

filed under: thinking, being, dating, research, Choice Mom survey, news

Human Fertility journal published the findings of Susan Golombok's Cambridge University survey of who Choice Moms are, and are not. Notable findings: we have a high percentage of post-graduate degrees, and we don't hate men. But, of course, we knew that.

Posted February 2, 2010 at 1:50 PM

Identity in transracial families

filed under: adoption, transracial, research

A report by Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, titled "BEYOND CULTURE CAMP: PROMOTING HEALTHY IDENTITY FORMATION IN ADOPTION," was released in November 2009. It is the most extensive examination of adult adoptive identity to date, based on reports from adults who were adopted as children.