Posted May 24, 2010 at 12:30 PM

Support from city to city

filed under: support, Minnesota, Seattle, Texas, Atlanta, SanFrancisco, NYC, WashingtonDC, Europe, event insights, UnitedKingdom, emotions, feature, resources, regional guides, LosAngeles, Australia, Canada, Chicago, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia, Toronto, Boston, London, Baltimore

There has been a resurgence of interest from women in many parts of the United States, Canada and Europe to find connections with others on the Choice Mom journey. So I'm re-featuring this list of support options to help women find each other.

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Posted May 3, 2011 at 6:30 AM

Q&A: Talking about half-siblings

filed under: halfsiblings, ChoiceKids, insemination, QandA, resources, talking, event insights, being, Texas

A San Francisco Choice Mom wrote to me recently, asking how to address the half-sibling topic with her son. She's been in contact with two lesbian couples on the East Coast who have sons from the same donor.

Posted April 24, 2011 at 6:55 AM

Meet Deanna: One of our Austin Coordinators

filed under: Texas, thinking, ChoiceChat, support, resources

Two women from our 2010 Austin event have emerged to keep the conversations happening and the resources shared in that part of the U.S. Here's the story of one of them.

Posted April 16, 2011 at 8:55 AM

Meet Jessica: an Atlanta coordinator

filed under: Atlanta, ChoiceChat, support, regionalguides, resources, NorthCarolina, Boston, Chicago, UnitedKingdom, LosAngeles, Philadelphia, Texas, Toronto

I met Jessica at our Raleigh event. She had driven in from Atlanta with Cyndi. They met after I let them know both were traveling from the same area, so they made contact, drove together, became friends, and will now co-moderate our new Atlanta conversation board.

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Posted January 21, 2011 at 8:40 AM

Choice Chat: The ups and downs of adoption

filed under: adoption, thinking, Texas, trying, emotions, ChoiceChat, stress, waiting, support

Writes Valerie: "I've been at a bus stop for a month now.

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Posted October 18, 2010 at 10:50 AM

Are you in one of our Top 20 markets?

filed under: resources, Atlanta, Texas, Canada, Chicago, Minnesota, regionalguides, SanFrancisco, Seattle, sponsors, Toronto, WashingtonDC, UnitedKingdom, Australia, Baltimore, Boston, Europe, LosAngeles, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia

There are 10 major markets where Choice Moms live. There are Choice Moms everywhere, of course, but I'm focusing on 10 communities where this website gets the most traffic from single women. I'm building resource guides for the cities listed below, with your help.

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Posted October 6, 2010 at 10:05 AM

Our Top 20 Choice Mom-friendly therapists

filed under: emotions, thinking, resources, support, trying, SanFrancisco, nyc, stress, Minnesota, Philadelphia, LosAngeles, Seattle, Texas, Toronto, Canada, Boston, NorthCarolina

When you are feeling isolated, angry, depressed or confused about the Choice Mom path, the discussion boards have become a good place to vent and share. But sometimes we need someone who not only understands the Thinking to Being stages, but is specifically trained to talk with us about our emotions.

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Posted August 17, 2010 at 6:55 PM

Austin: Choice Moms Guide

filed under: Texas, resources, event insights

A new resource for Choice Moms will be regional guides for the cities where we have networked. Here's a work-in-progress for Choice Moms in Austin, based on notes from the networking event we held there in March 2010.

Posted August 3, 2010 at 4:55 AM

Who visits ChoiceMoms.org, and why?

filed under: NYC, research, Atlanta, Texas, Europe, Minnesota, SanFrancisco, Seattle, WashingtonDC, numbers, UnitedKingdom

Since I've been keeping track of website traffic for two years now, I thought it would be interesting to share information about where we tend to live, what information we tend to look for on the website, and what's been happening since I relaunched the website with its new format in February 2010.

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Posted June 7, 2010 at 7:40 AM

UPDATED: Some of the fertility doctors we like

filed under: fertility, resources, Minnesota, NYC, WashingtonDC, SanFrancisco, regional guides, doctor, Texas, UnitedKingdom

Nothing beats the recommendation of fellow Choice Moms about the doctors they entrusted to help them conceive. Following is a list of Choice Mom-recommended fertility specialists, with live links to fertility clinics that have supported in the past year the Choice Mom resources you find on this website and at our networking events. Use the comments field that follows to nominate your own favorites.

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Posted May 2, 2010 at 11:20 AM

Q&A: How do we handle kids' allowances?

filed under: money matters, Minnesota, being, ChoiceKids, tips, Texas, QandA

May is "Money Matters" month on the website. This month we'll take a look at what we're learning and sharing, from each other and from experts, about financial matters. Starting with this week's Choice Mom query: As parents who might expect more help from our kids, but with one paycheck, how do we handle allowances?

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Posted April 29, 2010 at 12:30 PM

Living in the moment

filed under: Texas, emotions, inspiration, tips, expert insight, stress

I admit that the idea of 'living in the moment' can sometimes seem laughable to a Choice Mom, who is so busy juggling day-to-day responsibilities that no moment seems to last long enough to live on.

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Posted April 29, 2010 at 12:15 PM

Open letter to Sandra Bullock

filed under: Texas, commentary, adoption, profile, hot topic, transracial

I admit that I'm a fan of Sandra Bullock. So when I learned that she was becoming a Choice Mom through adoption, after her divorce finalizes, and I was asked to comment by Fertility Authority, I was more than happy to send an open letter on behalf of our community. Here's some of what I said:

Posted March 16, 2010 at 1:00 PM

Creative solutions to simplifying life

filed under: support, Minnesota, Seattle, Texas, Atlanta, SanFrancisco, NYC, WashingtonDC, Europe, UnitedKingdom, resources, regionalguides, LosAngeles, Australia, Canada, Chicago, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia, Toronto, Boston, London, Baltimore

At the Austin Choice Moms event we started to talk about ways to simplify, and add flexibility to our work life, so that we can enjoy more time with our kids. How do we do it?