Posted May 24, 2010 at 12:30 PM

Support from city to city

filed under: support, Minnesota, Seattle, Texas, Atlanta, SanFrancisco, NYC, WashingtonDC, Europe, event insights, UnitedKingdom, emotions, feature, resources, regional guides, LosAngeles, Australia, Canada, Chicago, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia, Toronto, Boston, London, Baltimore

There has been a resurgence of interest from women in many parts of the United States, Canada and Europe to find connections with others on the Choice Mom journey. So I'm re-featuring this list of support options to help women find each other.

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Posted November 21, 2011 at 8:05 AM

New research on Choice Moms coming

filed under: research, news, UnitedKingdom, politics

The Cambridge Centre for Family Research has worked with ChoiceMoms.org in the past to do more extensive research into who we are and the choices we are making. Now they have a U.S.-based researcher joining the team for her ongoing work.

Posted June 22, 2011 at 9:10 AM

Being Choice Mom to Newborn Twins

filed under: becoming, waiting, multiples, UnitedKingdom

This profile submitted by a woman who started with IUI at age 37, and spent three years trying to conceive -- including five IVF cycles with her own eggs, and three IVF cycles with donor eggs, and a miscarriage. Her twin boys were born in March 2011.

Posted April 16, 2011 at 8:55 AM

Meet Jessica: an Atlanta coordinator

filed under: Atlanta, ChoiceChat, support, regionalguides, resources, NorthCarolina, Boston, Chicago, UnitedKingdom, LosAngeles, Philadelphia, Texas, Toronto

I met Jessica at our Raleigh event. She had driven in from Atlanta with Cyndi. They met after I let them know both were traveling from the same area, so they made contact, drove together, became friends, and will now co-moderate our new Atlanta conversation board.

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Posted February 1, 2011 at 7:20 AM

For our European community

filed under: Europe, UnitedKingdom

Thanks to Emily, as always, for stepping in as the primary voice in the United Kingdom to help women find their way on the Choice Mom journey. For our new emphasis on resources for our non-U.S. community, she started us off with this...

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Posted January 23, 2011 at 8:40 AM

Emma: our international similarities

filed under: dating, resources, UnitedKingdom, known donor, thinking, ChoiceChat

One thing I'm excited about is that in the coming months we will be featuring more content for our communities in Canada, the United Kingdom and Australia. Here is the story of one of us, currently living in the United Kingdom, that is in keeping with the February focus on "Partners."

Posted January 22, 2011 at 7:20 AM

Where are Choice Moms, and what matters to us?

filed under: numbers, Australia, Canada, Europe, UnitedKingdom, resources

This new-and-improved website has been in operation now for nearly a year. I'd like to share some interesting new data about where we tend to be living, the stages we are in, and what we prefer to read on this website.

Posted January 18, 2011 at 7:40 AM

What I've learned about weight loss, and European options

filed under: Europe, profile, UnitedKingdom, healthy living, trying, donor egg

This London-based woman shared her story about weight loss, and finding a fertility clinic that will take her out of country.

Posted November 5, 2010 at 7:35 AM

Australia's precedent in examining donor conception

filed under: trying, being, news, policy, Australia, donor conception, donor offspring, anonymous donor, ChoiceKids, open-identity donor, sperm bank, Canada, UnitedKingdom

There is a national discussion starting in the Australian Parliament about how to regulate and legislate donor conception practices across federal and state lines.

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Posted October 18, 2010 at 10:50 AM

Are you in one of our Top 20 markets?

filed under: resources, Atlanta, Texas, Canada, Chicago, Minnesota, regionalguides, SanFrancisco, Seattle, sponsors, Toronto, WashingtonDC, UnitedKingdom, Australia, Baltimore, Boston, Europe, LosAngeles, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia

There are 10 major markets where Choice Moms live. There are Choice Moms everywhere, of course, but I'm focusing on 10 communities where this website gets the most traffic from single women. I'm building resource guides for the cities listed below, with your help.

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Posted October 14, 2010 at 10:25 PM

UPDATED: Latest BioNews headlines

filed under: fertility, news, genetics, IVF, Canada, embryo, anonymous donor, UnitedKingdom, lesbian, donor offspring, resources, trying, research

As I've mentioned, one news source that I follow faithfully is BioNews, which publishes information about fertility and genetics out of the United Kingdom. Here are some of their latest reports of interest to the Choice Mom community.

Posted September 12, 2010 at 7:35 AM

Belgium: a good place for fertility treatment

filed under: Europe, ChoiceChat, UnitedKingdom, insemination, multiples

I met Vanessa at the Choice Mom networking event in London (July 2010). She is developing community connections for Choice Moms in her area, and had these tips to share about the pros and cons of Belgium as a fertility treatment option for single women.

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Posted August 11, 2010 at 4:05 AM

Diana: Part 2

filed under: ChoiceChat, emotions, fatherless, UnitedKingdom, fertility, thinking

We recently read about Diana's decision NOT to become a Choice Mom. Here is Part 2 of her story, when she decides to move into the Trying stage after all.

Posted August 3, 2010 at 4:55 AM

Who visits ChoiceMoms.org, and why?

filed under: NYC, research, Atlanta, Texas, Europe, Minnesota, SanFrancisco, Seattle, WashingtonDC, numbers, UnitedKingdom

Since I've been keeping track of website traffic for two years now, I thought it would be interesting to share information about where we tend to live, what information we tend to look for on the website, and what's been happening since I relaunched the website with its new format in February 2010.

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Posted August 3, 2010 at 3:40 AM

Diana: can I raise a child without a dad?

filed under: fatherless, ChoiceChat, thinking, UnitedKingdom, emotions

While in London I had the pleasure of meeting a woman at the Choice Mom gathering who told me about how she had decided some time ago that she definitely would not become a single mom -- partly after reading my "Choosing Single Motherhood" book. 18 months later, however, she's back on the path. I asked her to share her story about the thinking process.

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Posted July 24, 2010 at 3:20 AM

Notes from the U.K.

filed under: support, UnitedKingdom, Europe, research, money, event insights, having two

Thanks to the generosity of Choice Mom Emily, I've been able to spend a wonderful 10-day holiday in London with my kids and parents. While here I met in Coram's Field with 14 women, including Moms, Thinkers and Tryers from Belfast, Dublin, Belgium and many others in the United Kingdom. I also met with a large group of Ph.D. students in Cambridge, who were interested in the Choice Mom story.

Posted July 12, 2010 at 9:30 AM

Tips for building a support network

filed under: support, WashingtonDC, thinking, waiting, becoming, UnitedKingdom, event insights

At the Choice Moms networking event in D.C., Birthing Hands doula Claudia Booker offered many great tips for women about how to build a support network. She reiterated the importance of preparing for this well before the baby arrives. Some of her suggestions:

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Posted June 7, 2010 at 7:40 AM

UPDATED: Some of the fertility doctors we like

filed under: fertility, resources, Minnesota, NYC, WashingtonDC, SanFrancisco, regional guides, doctor, Texas, UnitedKingdom

Nothing beats the recommendation of fellow Choice Moms about the doctors they entrusted to help them conceive. Following is a list of Choice Mom-recommended fertility specialists, with live links to fertility clinics that have supported in the past year the Choice Mom resources you find on this website and at our networking events. Use the comments field that follows to nominate your own favorites.

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Posted March 16, 2010 at 1:00 PM

Creative solutions to simplifying life

filed under: support, Minnesota, Seattle, Texas, Atlanta, SanFrancisco, NYC, WashingtonDC, Europe, UnitedKingdom, resources, regionalguides, LosAngeles, Australia, Canada, Chicago, NorthCarolina, Philadelphia, Toronto, Boston, London, Baltimore

At the Austin Choice Moms event we started to talk about ways to simplify, and add flexibility to our work life, so that we can enjoy more time with our kids. How do we do it?

Posted February 11, 2010 at 5:50 PM

Do I Have a Dad?

filed under: fatherless, being, ChoiceKids, emotions, donor, known donor, nyc, SanFrancisco, UnitedKingdom, talking, resources

We're building an audio library featuring the best of our Choosing Single Motherhood radio show and Choice Chat podcasts. You can order the first of this collection, "Choice Moms Answer the Tough Questions: Do I Have a Dad?" (formerly a CD product, available here for immediate $7 download).

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Posted February 2, 2010 at 9:30 PM

Known donor safety

filed under: known donor, commentary, sperm, news, UnitedKingdom, sperm bank, home insemination

A growing number of independent websites and discussion groups have formed that connect donors directly with people who are in search of sperm. There obviously are no safeguards with this kind of contact. Many of the donors indicate they are giving altruistically, motivated only to help people create families.